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Best Relationship Advice Ever Part 3: Swap Complaining For Asking

Best Relationship Advice Ever Part 3: Swap Complaining For Asking

These lessons have completely changed the way I relate to my loved ones. I hope they’re helpful to you too. Best Relationship Advice Ever Part 3: Swap Complaining For Asking So often when people are unhappy with someone in their lives they complain about what’s wrong. He never does any housework. She never wants to have sex. Mom [...]

Best Relationship Advice Ever Part 2: Plant Your Own Garden

Best Relationship Advice Ever: 2. Plant Your Own Garden

This week I’m sharing some of the things I’ve learned over the years about relationships. I hope these lessons are helpful to you, too. Best Relationship Advice Ever Part 2: Plant Your Own Garden Plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.  ~ Veronica A. [...]

Best Relationship Advice Ever Part 1: One Freakout At A Time

Good Relationships Lesson 1: Deal With One Person's Crap At A Time

This Friday is my wedding anniversary (16 years – yikes!). And Thursday is Valentine’s Day – which to me is about all relationships, not just romantic ones. Which makes it a good week to think about relationship stuff. My relationships – romantic, family, friends - are a huge part of my life. They teach me so [...]

3 Strategies For Having – And Being – More Fun

Do people tell you you’re no fun? Do you wish you could relax and enjoy yourself more? After working in large financial institutions for over a decade, I became very serious and forgot how to have fun. It was a career choice so diametrically opposed to my personality that an organizational psych once asked, ‘How [...]

Time Management Quick Strategy: Learn To Say ‘No’

3 Steps To Getting More Done By Saying No More Often   Graciously decline requests that don’t fit your priorities. How? 1. Instead of ‘No I can’t’, try No thank you Sorry, I’m already over-committed My strengths are in [insert area of priorities]. 2. Role play your response to build confidence. 3. Remember – you [...]